Using Religious Pawn as a Shield!

Last friday's rally of protesting was very compelling but irritating to many commuters. It shows how this unruly people are being used by their masters. I was lucky enough not to pass that area along EDSA Shrine. It was a lucky choice not go through hell around Ortigas area where I would be stopped by horrendous traffic of vehicles and sea of people. The said incident have irked a lot of commuters and even car owners stucked that day. It  will definitely bleed your gas money.

Random Thoughts: My Thoughts on BDSM and Role Playing Sex!

 

I admit that I haven't experience such a scenario like this in my entire life. Maybe I got hyped with the Christian Grey character on the novel "50 Shades of Grey". Although I never read the book in actual life and just seen on shelves a few months ago selling like hotcakes on bookstores even my female colleagues at work  were talking about this on coffee breaks. I totally have no idea what the fuzz was all about until I saw the trailer presented on ANC News Channel a few months ago and seen some kinky BDSM scenes which TURNED ME ON.

Random Thoughts: Ghostly Apparitions and Encounters

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In this modern world of high technology and social media era, many people would not believe or skeptical of such things as ghost, malevolent spirits and other supernatural phenomenon because of innovations that have scientific basis for such events. Even if I am in the scientific field, I do believe in such things even if my mind play tricks on me as I perceive or conceptualize it inside my head based on psychological thinking on what to expect. Fear often triggers this thought of being scared especially when things go bump in the night. 

First Encounter:  I did have encounters of ghostly apparition when I was a young boy. At the age of 11, I was able to see a white figure standing at the fourth floor of the school building at night time. We were practicing our presentation for our boy scout / young scout meeting with our scout master and other younger scouts (cub scouts) in the open field bringing along our flash lights with us. The lady appeared out of nowhere. One of my scout mates saw at it as he turned on its flash light on the white figure a few meters away and it was a white lady. We were so scared at that time and we got in a hurry leaving our notes or songbook when we ran for our lives. We told our scout master about it and mention there is a legend that it was a nun who died a few decades ago that hunts the hallway of this private catholic school.

No Job or Employment? Work Online!

 "According to "The State of Filipino Freelance Market" study from Elance, Filipinos rank fourth in number of registered users in the online freelance marketplace, with 95,490 users, and ninth in freelancers' earnings with $7.7 million. They are also leading freelancers at Odesk and Freelancer.com."

In the past few years, many of the technically savvy Filipinos are joining the ranks of people working online worldwide. Working Freelance is gaining popularity these days and it has become convenient for most of the people to work at home and have more family time.  With estimated Unemployment at 6.7% to 7.5% this 2012-2013 it is still very high based on National Statistics Office (NSO) and NEDA Reports.

Previously, Filipino Freelancers are on 9th spot but have reach the 4th place as outsourcing  service providers for online services such as BPO, creatives, technically services and others.

A few months ago, Elance.com a US based online freelance platform has appointed  Ronald M. Cirujano as their country chief based out of Manila.

As many are asking, what type of work would an freelance online worker expect? 

It can be a basic data encoding, research, writing press releases, answering email inquiries and many more.

There are a lots of potential employments for those seeking extra work or doing some side projects or  other than the full-time work.

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 More videos of being Freelance in the Philippines via Youtube.
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Silent Operator Dan, is 30 something heterosexual male. A part-time blogger, adult scene observer / patron and a frustated writer of some sort although he was a former editor-in-chief of his college newspaper. He currently resides somewhere out of the realm of the city limits and dabbles in high finance and business. You can catch him at http://theconfessionsofayoungman.blogspot.com.

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Why I am against PORK BARREL!

It was a wild ride since the day when the Pork Barrel or Priority Development Assistance Fund  Scam was exposed by several whistle blowers. One of them was kidnapped by the mastermind or perpetrator for exposing this horrendous act to our fellow Filipinos. The scam had been the talk of town for the past few months and many people are wondering where the funds are going. I was clueless at first because I believe it went straight to a politicos pocket but it wasn't that way. It was clean through a fraudulent foundations created by these scammers and the some of the politicos have a share of it leaving no paper trails.

The truth had come out and it was a sad fact that the money we paid is going through their pockets.

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It is such an act of thievery with the hindsight of helping the less fortunate especially the farmers or the agricultural sector who should be benefiting from this funds in order to make their produce of fruits, vegetables and rice more of good quality plus helping this forgotten sector up its knees. Most of the so called politicos are acting blind about it and they themselves pocketing money through the foundations they are involved with including Janet Lim-Napoles foundations which are in cooperation with these political bigwigs.

26th of August 2013, It was the a National Heroes Day (Philippine Holiday) when the 1 Million People March to Luneta happened. I admit I missed this opportunity and event to participate as a tax payer and hailing from a middle class family working my daily grind and paying my dues to this country I dearly love. I do sympathize with these people who gathered in the 1 Million March to Luneta Park and Quirino Grandstand in the City of Manila.

Infographics courtesy of  globalvoicesonline.org

The funds if used properly could help alot of Filipinos could be rechanneled to our social services and others in need of assistance from the government giving an ease to every Filipinos life. No one is hungry, no need to go abroad to work etc.

With Janet Lim-Napoles in custody of the Philippine National Police, she would shed more light on her testimonies on the shady deals and agreements from corrupt government officials if she testifies to a senate or congressional inquiry and even if it goes to the supreme court.

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Local Sex Trade: A Brief Introduction.

From: Esquire.com

The International and Local Sex Trade is big and there are many Filipino women working locally and abroad in the flesh trade as sex workers whether it be in the streets of Manila to Wan Chai District in Hong Kong, Singapore's Geylang area and some brothel in the African country in Ivory Coast for example wherein they are mainly catered to fellow Filipino expatriates (OFWs) or Asian men (Mainland Chinese or sometimes European expatriates to be exact) only just to name a few.

GM Experience: The Pros and Cons of Being a Nutty Instructor.

This happened a few years ago, I was a newly hired as a part-time college instructor in one university somewhere in the Metro Manila. I was a young guy just fresh from the intricacies of corporate world and had recently completely at least 33 units of graduate studies in one of the top university in the country. I was looking positive in this new job of imparting and teaching something for my students and incorporating some of my knowledge gain from my years of experience with the company..

Optimism was on my side and I felt totally nervous on my first day of classes. I was given a class of 44 college student and on the first day of classes I sat on one of the student's chair. Waiting for the class to come and was so excited about it. On that occasion they were waiting for their instructor not knowing that I am the instructor because they were mostly not wearing their uniforms and most of the are on their civilian outfit. I was silently laughing pretending I was just a transferee student or irregular student from their block section sitting at the farther back of the class chairs. They were talking and laughing till I decided to take over and stood up. It felt like the scene from Catch Me If You movie (2002) minus the pushing and the old woman berating me and being the substitute teacher. See below:

GM Experience: Dating with Intellectual type college educated students

 

For many average Juan like us, it is a very awkward to get to meet and greet a beautiful young lady with intellectual wits and sophisticated charms that could amaze any man.  It will be a turn off or a challenge for every man on dealing with ladies who do geek speak or nerd language or techie types.  However, be warned the may look like ugly person or somewhat dimwits with the jock type of people who considered them outcasts in typically U.S. mainstream TV but they do rule the world.

Anyways, there are things you need you should know as ordinary men if ever you get entangled with intellectual type of women and if really want to take the plunge and challenge yourself. For me, women with beauty and brains are really my weakness and their conversation on any topic of interest is mind stimulating as well meaning I really do desire to have one with them. 

GM Experience: Taking the Rare Opportunities!

I still remember the days when I was a very naughty young boy. Fascinated with women and having the pleasure of seeing a sexy lady entices me with such fantasy especially when seeing a lady you like for example your school crush or just a luscious lady you randomly encounter or seen them in girly or celebrity magazine. I do really appreciate beautiful women or women with a body to die for.

Opportunity in viewing is a rare occurrence for all of us. If there is a time that you need to strike then do it but make it look clean. Getting yourself caught from somebody else if you plan to do this type of covert actions would be a big mishap on yourself.

Such a wonderful view to see such a lovely lady with a curvacious body to match which was quite a bit awkward when you don't how your body works when you are still young.

Such a nice view brother.
 
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GM Experience: WISH!

Sexy Videos involving sex and relationship. I see myself reminiscing in such things like these. It kept me alive for the past few years with the nostalgia of having someone around me. I am on and off relationship with women but lately I am still single and but not looking.

Some of my friends say, I dwell too much on past. I tell them directly that I am not really. In the past relationship I just learned a great deal of things on how to be cautious in being a relationship and besides relationship is not just mere sex and I still believe in love, mutual understanding, strong friendship and many others which many of you might is a bit corny for a man like me.

I have based my beliefs on women's standpoint on men at times. Still the song, lyrics and videos shows a lot of failed relationship, envy, lust and other things you might consider so melodramatic but I consider myself balanced.

The Rhythm and Blues genre is still produces songs that are truly based on experiences by the artist such these examples by Carl Thomas and Kenny Lattimore. Truly I missed a lot of the late 1990s to early 2000s songs.

Just sharing my thoughts on this. Feel free to comment, ladies and gentlemen.


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On Gay, Lesbians and other people!

Had you experienced this?

Being asked if you are open-minded, have notion of being gay or being converted into one of them.

Although I never have a thought of doing this in my entire life. My machismo self is still intact and still happy in being with the ladies. I am just a quiet guy on my personal life and not a closet gay or whatever they call it.

To tell you frankly, I have no pun against them because I do have friends or colleagues at work who are openly gay and they are happy as what they say. I just don't like being asked about my sexuality as a "heterosexual man" when they already know I am a "MAN" and not gay just because I am single and not in a relationship means I am gay? I am just a plain gentleman who is secretive and living a machismo life in the digital life as a sex expert dealing with loose women. I just don't like being harassed by gay men especially with questions which is embarrassing as well.

I had such a bad or terrible of experience of being hounded by a throng of these lady boys because I was a cute chubby kid back then and got pinched in the face but I fought back against and merely escaped my life after that incident in the early 1990s which is another story.

Funny, I am admired by men on what I shared my sexual escapades and experiences a couple of years ago which I presumed to be trial or error period depending on the scenarios they had. I gave them the experience of empowerment on how to deal with their manly problem and shared some of my insights as well.

Even if their kind are rising in numbers. It seems everything on their thoughts and influence is trending with this new lifestyle they like. It reflects on how the environmental factors attributed through influences from media. Gay Marriage might become the in thing but I doubt it if it will be today or in the next 20 years or so?

I never like being cried foul if I am sometimes against them and their principles which in my opinion not acceptable in my social norms but they are humans and do have their basic rights and privilege as we have too.

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And now Gangnam Style....

 After the Call me, Maybe...now Psy's song is coming out. Even Filipino version of dancing the The dancing inmates of Cebu to Mocha Girls...What can you say about this?

Man..Are we being dominated by Koreans? :-))


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GM Experience: Relationship with a PSP / MPA (Learning the hard way!)

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I have a confession to make this happened two years ago. I got into an on and off relationship with this lady called Ms. J. She was a PSP indeed and was a college student at the time I met. I have heard to many sob stories of these ladies as they are typical for me. She  mentioned to me that  she was doing this support her studies in an all-girl college somewhere in the city.  She was already in her senior year when she decided to work into this venture. I met her from a mutual friend who was her so called boyfriend then and showed me some photos of her and her Facebook and  Friendster account. She was this 19 year old charmer turning 20 at the time she joined the trade.

I helped her a couple of times through indirect ways and  in the following months till we became close friends and talked all evening on the phone. One night, I was enticed by her to meet up because she got curious of me a of how and what I look and told her I am not the good looking, tall, dark and handsome guy in your dreams that you might want to meet. She said, it doesn't matter. I would just like to meet you that lead into the conversation and had a heated up into sensual conversation with the lady on the phone. It was quite unique because I never done that before in my life to tell you the truth.

A week later, I got curious on how she looks in person and had a chance encounter when she was on her way to Cubao to meet a guest and told her I told her that will be waiting for her once she is finished with the session and went on to Gateway Mall to have some coffee near the theater. At that time, I was reluctantly texting and waiting for her reply until she turned off her phone to have some private moments with the guest. Oh well, just sip my coffee and lady watching on the mall for next two hours. 

A PSP's Transition to Normal Life!

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A lot of former PSP / MPA face the difficulty of returning to normal life as ordinary people, they become shackled and addicted to the easy money, debts, drugs and other factor that led them to their former professions The physical and psychological scar to their experience may not be evident at most but they can be felt tremendously after a few months of being out of the business and the need or urge of being felt loved by men or need for sex or the money as well - Lust, Infatuation, Sex etc.

It has become on the situation with women would get depressed and loose their self-esteem wherein they see themselves being in stained or in the pool of mud. never to rise and recover. The past experience of selling their  body and soul to a number of guests or clients on every meet is sometimes an experience that cannot be reversed .