For many average Juan like us, it is a very awkward to get to meet and greet a beautiful young lady with intellectual wits and sophisticated charms that could amaze any man. It will be a turn off or a challenge for every man on dealing with ladies who do geek speak or nerd language or techie types. However, be warned the may look like ugly person or somewhat dimwits with the jock type of people who considered them outcasts in typically U.S. mainstream TV but they do rule the world.
Anyways, there are things you need you should know as ordinary men if ever you get entangled with intellectual type of women and if really want to take the plunge and challenge yourself. For me, women with beauty and brains are really my weakness and their conversation on any topic of interest is mind stimulating as well meaning I really do desire to have one with them.
Back in my younger years as a college student, I was dealing with a UP student. We just met on a blind date of some sort. To describe her frankly, she was ordinary looking for most guys opinion but for me she was sexy and she doesn't know it. If ever I introduce her a little bit of Cosmopolitan (Cosmo) magazine and should have a fashion sense and had a makeover she could be a hot looker indeed. She does look like a geek and talks like a geek with perfect straight English which was quite a challenge for me then and really a "nosebleed" on some topics.
Do you want to take the challenge?
What Men should know about these types of ladies
1. Women like these are sometimes misunderstood or a bit sensitive - Just be careful on the words you say about them if ever you are going say something not is not charming or cute in their ears or their visual senses then it will ruin your objective of getting to know them more.
2. Get ready to entangled or embroiled with topics of interest they like - You must know a little bit of literature other than reading men's magazine you had, books or novels with interesting genre that most of them read to technical or theoretical applications on Quantum Physics and Mathematics (I'm just kidding). So do a little bit of research and brain work for a change.
3. Brush up your English - before you go into debates with these ladies. Get your facts straight before getting into hot mess or you will be crushed.
4. They are mere mortals like you and I - Remember, they are the same physiologically with other women but their brain cells are highly reactive so better learn to adapt and acclimate in a much faster pace.
5. Use your personality and charms - Sometimes charming a lady with your personality could be helpful but don't flatter her that much instead tickle and pleasure her intellectually if you are at par with their brains not their brawn. Be playful and she will respond to you too. Always smile to show that you are a friendly person.
6. Be funny - Girls dig guys who can be comedian or an artist at the same. Learning the craft of making women laugh could take huge amount of practice. So better start practicing this craft. It does wonder with nerdy girls, ordinary girls or social climbing girls as well.
Remember, this is a hit or miss opportunity and results may vary depending on type of geeky lady you are dealing with.
Good luck!
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ReplyDelete7. Girls dig men who are kind and courteous. Who doesn't stand them up on dates, who texts/tweets/call (calling is preferable) if they can't make it or if they will be running late.
8. Don't say things about your mother on the first date. Gushing comments about your mom makes us think you're mama's boy, whereas derogatory comments makes us think you have mommy issues. Same with ex-girlfriends. Bring up topic of "mother" or "ex-GF" only if we ask.
9. Do talk about your work and how much you love it. But be careful, once we have that glazed look in our eyes, man you have to stop.
10. Bring up topics of shall we say, "sensual nature" if you think we really like you. Otherwise be prepared to be slapped.
11. We check your grammar.
But then, if you look like Brad Pitt or Chris Pine or Jake Gylenhall or Alex Pettyfer -- you may disregard all of the above and just give us the permission to stare at you all night. Hey girls can be superficial too!
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