An Interview with An HIV Positive Woman

A few years ago, I was still working for a well respected medical institution somewhere in Metro Manila. I was tasked by one of  the senior medical resident to conduct an interview of a mid-50s woman who was awaiting for her queue outside the ICU waiting. I let her inside on one of the cubicle of the Intensive Care Unit of the hospital which was empty. Before conducting some actual interviews, I made her feel a little bit comfortable with my approach and gave her a pen to fill-out the consent forms prior to HIV/AIDS testing and so we went to room to conduct a private matter relating to her test.

She was a bit nervous about it as when I was about to conduct an interview with her personally. I did asked her some funny and outrageous questions regarding her sexuality? Like how many multiple sex partners did she slept with, Having sex with same gender? She did answered truthfully about it. Did she already had information about HIV/AIDS which transmissible through blood transfusion, sexual contact and others which is kind of a short orientation on the topic of this illness before undergoing blood collection and testing which is mandatory under the current Philippine HIV / AIDS Law (Republic Act 8504). As I became serious on discussing her a bit of the disease which still felt apprehensive. Usually an HIV/AIDS consent for testing interviews are usually conducted by either a Physician, Nurse, Medical Technologist or even a Medical Social Worker trained or oriented to handle cases like these. Still "PATIENT CONFIDENTIALITY" is still practiced in order to protect the identity of the patient suspected with this illness.

Sex Education: This is what our children need right now!

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Learning Sex Education should be FREE and ACCESSIBLE.

Before HIV/AIDS, Reproductive Health Law and others. Sex education was still at its infancy then but still our teachers in science class are discussing about basics of human reproductive system. One of our lecturer then when we were in 6th grade was a medical doctor who turned into a politician and high profile government figure a few years ago. We attended his half-day lecture-seminar in our school library and the section were present. He lectured about sex and discussed it a bit in a creative way to address the needs of us 11-12 year old boys and girls then who were educated in private religious Roman Catholic school. I can still recall the time when a male classmate of mine was feeling awkward when he hears the word "SEX" during the discussion. He did admit to us that he was a bit horny and had his penis erected with those words when the lecturer was discussing this. Come to think of it during those elementary it made me laugh at him for being a "schmuck" up till the present.

GM Expericence: KULIGLIG - What are they?

I recently received a private message from a young man who was asking me about the so-called Kuliglig?

Q: I am a new MP patron and I heard about the term "kuliglig" on a one well-known Philippine sex related forum when I read the thread. What are they?

A: To give you some idea what the kuliglig are:

Just to give you an idea of this and also for the foreigner who want to try our local hospitality. In Pinoy /Filipino term or jargon it has two variations. First of all it is an insect which can be found in wooded areas and produce a distinct sound. The kuliglig in English are called cicadas and not crickets. The second term, kuliglig is a two-wheeled tractor turned into a vehicle or a contraption used in agricultural areas and even in the streets of the City of Manila which was banned this year with local ordinances passed by the local government units or the mayor in order to alleviate traffic accidents and incidences of petty crimes in the city.

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Although you cannot find this term on Wikipedia. In the local MP Industry, Kuliglig is the term for girls NOT available for viewing at the aquarium, usually they are either new or not part of the MP stable. They are usually doing side works or part-timers as MPAs and not a regular therapist. Although some have no formal training in massage which is irrelevant looking for those who prefer the extra service anyways. Let me ask, do you go to these massage parlor alone for the massage or for the kinky part? If you don't like the available ladies at the aquarium or the see through window. You can ask for them anyways.

How Can A Patron Avail of Their Services?

You can visit the friendly massage parlors that provide extra services nearby and just nicely ask the Floor Manager (FM) or  so called "barong" which can help you choose of your liking for these ladies and if they are available. They usually have them well hidden and out of sight of the regular MPAs. You can have a close inspection of these ladies courtesy of the FMs / barongs on a specific room of the establishment. Some are hidden gems others are not. So its a hit and miss thing and still the YMMV (Your mileage, may vary) on these ladies on how they perform.

Their Service Fees?

It is the same as a regular MPA too. You can just an add an extra tip if you like the service given by the Kuliglig MPAs. The standard fee may vary from MP establishments so better to research and do homework.

Where to Find Them?

These MPAs may be available in some establishment or may not be available. Better to ask the Floor Managers first (barongs).
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Silent Operator Dan, is a 30 something heterosexual male. A part-time blogger, adult scene observer / patron and a frustated writer of some sort although he was a former editor-in-chief of his college newspaper. He currently resides somewhere out of the realm of the city limits and dabbles in high finance and business. You can catch him at http://theconfessionsofayoungman.blogspot.com. Follow him on Twitter or Facebook.

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GM Experience: Back in The Hunting Grounds?

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It's been more than a decade since I left college or the university and completed my university degree. I did have a promising career with the profession I chosen before and I did love it. But a month ago, someone from my Facebook friends sent me a message and was asking where you can hunt for an instant pick-up. I did answer some stuff but technically everything requires the so-called "TRADECRAFT" of being a pick-up artist. Although I am a novice and still learning the ropes of the tricks in this game at that time. I started as a wannabe myself during those early days. To tell you, I am not a professional P.A or the so-called snipers and it wasn't easy.

What have I Learned with a TESDA Technical Training Course

I never imagine myself being a student again training in a TESDA course. I was on day off at that and I saw a bunch of guys doing Electrical Stuff. I really wasn’t engrossed on this but I got curious and approached by my dad who was observing with some City Employment Service Officer from our local government unit and a TESDA accredited trainer named Mr. F.

Mr. F. invited to come and asked me to fill up some forms and I eventually got on board even if I was a day behind schedule. The course was NC II Electrical Installation and Maintenance. I am really up to this right now being the so called Electrician or just plain “ALAKTRICIAN” a drunkard to loves to play with electricity while being drunk at work or in a GM terms “NAKURYENTE” (being infected with Sexually Transmitted Infection) or Sexually Transmitted Disease. Such a butt of jokes indeed.

A Career Shift: Leaving the PSP Industry…

I wonder what happens to a PSP who finally decided to leave the industry for good and would like to settle back on being a normal person again. I asked one of the PSP I knew before she retired from the industry and into the next chapter of her life. I was totally amazed of her decision to let go and move forward although I have missed our conversations over a coffee and rendezvous at one point in life. Not knowing if we can still meet again since it will be our last conversation as a guest – client at that time. It takes a lot of guts to step out of the shell of being PSP and changing herself as an ordinary Jane which is a metamorphosis of new positive life. Everything in being a PSP is all TEMPORARY and NOT PERMANENT SOLUTION especially with financial burdens and poverty. It is a hard fact that there are many dependents to support making them breadwinners of their families and feeling the brunt of it without being comforted by their own loved ones. Some ladies love the piece of the action and do this for just for fun of in making extra buck. Others are living independently from their parents and are supporting themselves on their studies and defray personal needs to cover daily expenses from school or other works.

The Evolution of the Philippine Sex Online (Part 2)

Online Forum Site (2004 to 2009)

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ManilaTonight.com (MTC) started in 2003 as a social media forum site ran by B$zm@n aka C.V. in his real identity or still another identity? Although he is added on my current Facebook account. I only met him once in 2013 on one social event with other forum site (We are NOT personally close, just acquainted guys) as an invited guest in that particular party. MTC has paved the way and started everything up from scratch with a few members to hundred thousands of legion of user or forum members who are using his website. It is the grand daddy of all adult themed forum sites before everything else came out. It expanded from social issues, buy and sell, and even some off topic that people share especially their stories and still remaining anonymous. The law enforcement agents still love to deploy and scout for leads on this site for undercover work in ridding off alleged online prostitution even though there are lots of online forum that spawned in the past few years. The site had mellowed down from recent years in my opinion with law enforcement agencies clamping down on this site against the so called "P" which is the oldest profession in the world.

The Evolution of the Philippine Sex Online (Part 1)

I have seen how this forums have grown multiplied, proliferated and died out in the past decade. It was an amazing and yet a great opportunity to see, delve and find some treasures in the past decade of my enlightenment with internet capabilities slightly introducing itself as a format of it all. The law enforcement agencies are keeping up pace with the modern times and technology in enforcing laws with the help of news media personalities such as Mike Enriquez of Imbestigador (GMA 7) and defunct-XXX (ABS-CBN).

In my college years in the late 1990s to early 2000s I was a naive college kid and was having a great time on being independent and living away from my parents. I did experiences the dorm life with fun, enthusiasm and  troubles as well. I never had a checkered life like the privileged rich guys who had great time boozing around I was an ordinary student going through and struggling with my everyday life on studies, friends and even love life.